Sep 27, 2010

Thoughts while missing in action again ...

I suppose this is going to happen now and then... I haven't had the time to post or blog visit and when I had the urge to do so ... my pc was occupied. That's what happens when you have 3 active gamers at home who love to hog the pc.
...Work has been hectic too... so very little inspiration has been flowing through.

I am behind on my course assignment, but mostly I have been trying to distract myself I think from the impending proceedings.  I am strangely not worried nor aggrieved in any way about the current process or what will soon be.  My main thoughts are on the kids and what it is going to mean for us which is mostly continuing on to the next stage in life. For them, nothing much will really change except a physical change of address and life will continue very much as it has for the past year, though they may not realize it at first

For me I suppose there is nothing to miss that has not already been missing for a long time. I look forward to live life, to laugh more freely and hope to stop grieving over naivete and for what cannot be regained.

4 comments:

  1. Been there, done that. You and the kids are in my prayers. Blessings

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  2. Yes, a lot of us have been there and done that!
    I regret not having had the children part though, but there is still time!

    I reckon that women have a built-in instinct and things will come to you when they are ready. Everything has a plan.
    Big hugs!

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  3. Dor23729/9/10

    Why does divorce feel like a debilitating disease ? I have wondered that myself, I sympathize.
    But I'd like to give you some advise, look forward and keep moving forward is what I have learned because in the end when you finally look back you would be disgusted with how much time/energy you expended on your to-be-X who is just that a BIG X. Ive sent you via email sthg to read, hope it helps.

    Dora

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  4. Thank you Dora, it helps.

    BM

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