Things are settling or should I say the dust is settling.I'm moving on with life. There are new phases and stages with the kids now as they get on with ADOLESCENCE.
When DOES that end ...? really ?!
Each definitely have their father's genes.
They have tempers that flare on the quick and sometimes I am reminded of the stressful times while I was staying with my narcissistic X.
Each is different in the degree of it and how they manage it or cope with it. I can only advice and as they grow older hope they be more mindful of it.
I wouldn't want them to turn out to be like the X. He's a real example of how life will turn out - unless you like being alone. No family to stick by you, no true or long term friends who can bide you.
People can read(sense) you when you are not sincere, they will not tell you, just walk away. You may think you are likable and yet.
I've grown calmer in the face of heat.
Sometimes I wonder and fear that people might find out I am not likeable so I walk away before they realise that.
ReplyDeleteBut then again I think I do not give a relationship or friendship enough time for others to wonder if I am likeable before I walk away. Haha soon I will be alone.
blessings dear one!
ReplyDeletesending big hugs to you!
peace